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Notes"I often feel that, in so many areas of what we might call progressive politics or ideologies, we leave ourselves last. We retain that distorting lens of what we’ve been taught, not what we actually think. So – we celebrate a diverse range of body shapes, but tell ourselves we’re too fat to be attractive. We think gender fabulousness is a great thing – and then worry we’re too different to be accepted. We know that kyriarchal lies are, well, lies…and then listen to them, echoing around us, making us feel ashamed/unworthy/less than."CN Lester (The beauty myth and me… « a gentleman and a scholar)
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Notes"Queer people do not need to offer excuses or defend their own existence. If one could become queer by simply waking up one morning and deciding to become queer, for a day, for an hour, it wouldn’t change the fact that being queer is just as good, as valid, as worthy, as being straight. Providing straight people with reasons or excuses for our queerness simply confirms their suspicions that our sexuality really is their business and that we need to justify our existence to them. This allows heterosexists to continue to believe there is something superior about heterosexuality, and that being queer is a deviation from some kind of normal or default sexuality. There isn’t and it’s not.
We don’t need to justify ourselves to anyone. We don’t need a reason to be queer. Maybe we were born this way, maybe we weren’t. Maybe sexuality is fluid for some people and not for others. It’s totally irrelevant either way. The message we need to send to heterosexists is not that our sexuality was foisted upon us and that they should be “tolerant” and “understanding”. The message is: our sexuality is perfectly valid and none of your business, we offer you no excuses, and we are never going away." -
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Notes no boobs for brennan!I have 23 days left to (hopefully!) reach my goal for top surgery. I’m currently at $1,174 and my goal is $3,000. I’m having the surgery done this summer so I’m working on saving up enough money in time. If you’re able to donate even a few dollars, it’ll help me immensely.
Top surgery is really important to me. I’ve had back issues for years, binding is extremely uncomfortable, and I just don’t feel happy with my body as it is now. There are incentives for donating, so please check them out. :) Thank you to everyone who has donated so far. You’ve helped me out so much. I promise to pay it forward. <3 If you can pass this around, that’d really help me out as well. :)
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Notesi found this empty potato chip bag outside while walking rover. first i just thought it was a funny thing to make a targeted brand for, like why potato chips? then i flipped it over and found all this weird abstinence propaganda. yikes! who even reads the back of a chip bag! (aside from me - i love reading those silly little over the top write-ups for branding)
I’m starting to second guess my policy of always doing what product packaging tells me to
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Notes"Stories you read when you’re the right age never quite leave you. You may forget who wrote them or what the story was called. Sometimes you’ll forget precisely what happened, but if a story touches you it will stay with you, haunting the places in your mind that you rarely ever visit."Neil Gaiman (via misswallflower)
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*sexual shudder*
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Feel Giving a Blow Job is Degrading?
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Nerds and Male Privilege (definitely worth a read!)
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Links and Resources
A list of helpful and positive sites and blogs, divided into Hotlines, Advice/Self-help, Body...
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Amy, Rory, and The Doctor
from Series 6: Let’s Kill Hitler
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GUIDE TO EATING PUSSY
Men suck at eating pussy. Not because they don’t like it but because it’s really...
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The Lady by illustrator Erika Moen
Part of her fantastic Sex Toy Saints series, available for viewing and purchase on ...
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Sasha Grey has a lot of guts.
And I don’t know how she does it sometimes. If you see just...
